“Work hard, know your shit, show your shit, and then feel entitled. And since they didn't, they want to stop you. But when you're winning, it makes them feel like they're losing or, worse yet, that maybe they should've tried to do something too, but now it's too late. People do not get scared when you're failing. “People get scared when you try to do something, especially when it looks like you're succeeding.

So that's why you need to be a little bit brave.”ĩ. And the scary thing I have noticed is that some people really feel uncomfortable around women who don't hate themselves. I do idiotic things all the time and I say crazy stuff I regret, but I don't let everything traumatize me. Because my heart is reserved for way more important things.”Ĩ. But my secret is: even though I wish I could be thin, and that I could have the ease of lifestyle that I associate with being thin, I don’t wish for it with all of my heart. I feel it when I wake up in the morning and try on every single pair of my jeans and everything looks bad and I just want to go back to sleep. “Though I am a generally happy person who feels comfortable in my skin, I do beat myself up because I am influenced by a societal pressure to be thin. I have never, ever, ever, met a high confident person and successful person who is not what a movie would call a 'workaholic.' Because confidence is like respect you have to earn it.”ħ. “People talk about confidence without ever bringing up hard work.but I don’t understand how you could have self-confidence if you don’t do the work. The hard part is, you'd better make sure you deserve it.”Ħ. Entitlement is simply the belief that you deserve something. Entitlement has gotten a bad rap.but entitlement in and of itself isn't so bad. I mean, ideally, it’s serialized and female-driven.”ĭon’t we all want that kind of relationship? Sign us up ASAP.ĥ. “I want a guy who wants to curl up on a Friday night and watch Netflix. “The best kind of laughter is laughter born of a shared memory.”Ĥ.

Why not me mindy